I understand some people are still reading this group. Today I found out
I have a problem with needy and dependent men and that I don't need to
leave the door open to men with massive problems. There might be
something in me that feels obligated to or feels a duty to these men but
they are a drain on me emotionally. They can not fulfill or satisfy my
emotional needs. They are not emotionally available in the way I need
them to be. If you can relate feel free to holler back. If you are
afraid of the others you can download a software called Thunderbird that
lets you filter out harmful posters. You are probably anonymous so
people won't know who you are unless you have a history on Usenet. I am
relatively new to it having really been only posting in earnest for a
year.
Olympiada